Have you ever been in a room full of friends and there has been dead silence? I'm talking so quiet, you can hear a pin drop? Well I have. Not that we weren't all speaking to one another because we were...THROUGH OUR PHONES! That's right people, I'm talking about social media! Twitter, Facebook, instagram, and a host of other social outlets. The days of knocking on the door to see if someone is home are over. With a simple tweet, you can contact a friend, a business, a celebrity, you name it. Social media has grown rapidly over the last few years, and its only getting bigger. I remember being on this party line called "The loop" back in the day. Everybody was on it. It was a way to talk to friends and people you didn't know from a can of paint all at once. No pictures, just voices. One big chatroom on the phone. It was great, until mom's phone bill came every month. At the time, I couldn't forsee beyond that. AOL and MSN chatrooms had existed for some time and they were great as well. But growing up in Philly at the time, not everyone had the internet. You had to go to a friends house or the library to be able to get online. Cell Phones were basic, and the best game on them was "Snake". My point is, it was pretty difficult to get in touch with people so easy the way we do nowadays. The first major social media outlet for my generation was none other than Black Planet. Black Planet let you be great. It was the first time you could customize your profile, upload pictures, communicate with friends, flirt with girls, and basically network with others all from the comfort of your home. It was like one big online club, specifically for african americans. I remember me and my homeboy Ant used to be on black planet all the time waiting for "New Notes". In my opinion, this was the beginning of social media. You were able to contact friends without having to pick up the phone. Little did I know that in a few years, black planet would be obsolete due to another social media giant. Something much bigger and better. Something with unlimited networking possibilities. That something would turn out to be Myspace. Myspace! The name speaks volumes. It was YOUR space to post whatever you wanted. From music, to pictures, to videos. Myspace was Big! It was the first social site that I can recall, that you were able to interact with not only people from all over of all different backrounds, but celebrities as well. People like Sean Kingston, Lily allen, and everybodys favorite rapper, Soulja boy were discovered off myspace. From 2005 to 2008, myspace was the most visited site online. Myspace had a net worth of 12 billion dollars. That's crazy right? So at the time of course, my close minded ass thought that there's no way anything can dethrone myspace. There's no way myspace will ever crumble. Then comes facebook. Facebook was originally made specifically for college students. I know this because at the time it was being introduced, I was a student at Camden county college. If you didn't have a school id, no Facebook. Facebook grew so popular among college students that eventually everyone had access to it. It was like myspace but better. More picture uploads, easier interface. Still, myspace continued to dominate... that is until smartphones began rolling out. The amount of people who were currently on facebook tripled when facebook mobile rolled out. Plus, with facebook allowing everyone to join now, myspace eventually curled up in a ball and died. There was no competition. From 2008 to now, facebook is the largest social media site to date. Facebook has a total of 100 billion pictures uploaded to it. If you ever need to find anyone, chances are there on facebook. Social media is huge worldwide. Personally, I think they owe a huge part of their sucess to smart phones. With applications like twitter and the growing application that is instagram, getting in touch with anybody is simple, but how is social media affecting us? Well for starters, many jobs are banning facebook and twitter because they believe that people spend so much time on them that work production slows down. In some instances, people have been turned down for jobs due to facebook statuses. People have been murdered over facebook. A tweet can cost you a job. You can even be fined, case in point JR smith was fined by the NBA when he tweeted a picture of Tahiry's amazingly big ass. Sure there are a lot of negatives that come with social media, but in the end that's just a risk you have to take. In closing, I would like to say embrace social media. It is one of the greatest ideas known to man. Use it to your advantage! Network, meet new people. The days of being limited to socializing to people only when your in person are over! Let's all be great together! Tweet away people!